The difference between a suggestion and a push
A shopper asking "will this fit a 15-inch laptop" wants a yes or a no, and then the sleeve that does fit. That is an upsell nobody resents. A bot that answers with the most expensive item in the category has simply moved the sales pressure into the chat window, and shoppers close it.
The practical rule: suggest when the suggestion is the answer, and cap how many products appear. Vatdi lets you set that limit, control whether product links are included at all, and set the tone and reply length so the AI does not turn every answer into a pitch.